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Self Respecting Horizon

5/31/2016

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​Certain loss leaders in life have nothing to do with profit and physical damage. Personality carte blanche rules the premise of politeness. From rude email responses to ill-fated evites gone are the days of protocol. Fractious connections are accepted as the order of the day with the assumption that they will always be a source to tap into.

Not acceptable. Never was. Never should have been. Getting side-tricked by the misnomer of everything is ok with a smile is phony and misleading. We emulate what we see because of trying to do the peer thing. Side-tricked into believing this behavior is suitable we get on the bus riding it out eventually becoming the passenger with the odor everyone is trying to avoid smelling the same air with.

​Reviewing the wreckage you try to regroup. You dig way back in the rolodex because you sure bruised up your digital contacts through bad context. Bragging and minimizing others, showing up to the party eating up all of the food. Placing false and true rumors and thinking nothing will get back because you are the bomb. But apparently you've blown up and not in a good way.  Now the real work begins-again.

​Damage control is a Band-Aid effort. You can't sop this up with a biscuit. You don't know where to begin because you did not realize you started it. The first person you disrespected wasn't the person you acted rudely toward, it was to yourself. Now you are aware of it-time to address it.

For one, we all have egos and are human and it may or may not be most of your fault for obvious outcomes so give up the blame game. It's old tired and done. The genesis of the issue could have innocently cropped its ugly head as a snowball of praise, feeling invincible and before you know it you are arriving on a float to every event. The head swells we get a little too comfortable and the tongue loosens.

You go from boy or girl wonder to butt of the joke accompanied with backs turned calls unreturned and network opportunities morphing into a shrunken head. You have the power to turn it around. Your attitude must change meaning you have to dig deeper dropping the false bravado. Check yourself. How did you get here and what are you doing. Stop blaming other people for the slip ups and failures and own it which is all part of the process.

Instead of whipping yourself for what you did wrong whatever your role go for what to improve on so the issues can fade to black. Initially there was a drive for something greater than today, a will to want to grow personally and professionally. At twenty we tell ourselves we know it all but when we turn forty we realize we are a student of life. Don't lose this as there is humility in it.

An understanding of greatness outside of ourselves should at the least propagate a culture of common decency beyond our oneness.  Catch phrases sow the seeds of doubt as cascading slippery slopes of trend. Dig deeper. Who are you? Write it down.

Something I do with some of  my groups I speak to is ask them to break into groups by age. The lists had major alterations as life happens through the decades. I have them do interesting things with the lists proving life is not such a mystery after all when we are the sleuth. So don't go running naked into the woods because you made a mistake. Just check yourself and after a while. You will be ok. Your gains will outweigh your losses on home turf and the welcome mat will say "Respect".

​Until next time~

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A Storm Resonates  Positive Change

5/16/2016

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On an otherwise unassuming day in October 2011 unprecedented storm news loomed. Not any storm but the kind producing debilitating ice assuredly setting new records for New England. Those living in states facing impending doom were warned of downed lines, power outages packing a punch, causing radios whose normal habitat somewhere between bottom of the closet of the lost and the inevitable walk of shame down cellar. But at least we knew what was coming.

Leaving my hotel for the trip home after a wonderful four days, I knew what was coming too. Refueling the car, making sure to have plenty of water, reassuring my mind of the emergency kit kept in the trunk because you never know what may happen I set off not knowing yet hoping like the rest of us that it wouldn't be as intense as predicted. Greeted with a welcome to Connecticut also brought on a new normal for what ended up for the majority as an 11-14 day black out.

Debris, enormous tree limbs and orange cones peppered the normally tree-lined neighborhoods of West Hartford, blocking the path to home. High beams on full alert, the alternative was getting back on the highway. Wishing for a blinking yellow street light felt like home but was not meant to be. Pushing forward the next exit brought more of the same. Third time is the victor as I finally see familiar paths to my front door.

​Even in pitch dark the full lens of what transpired painted a picture indelibly as with suitcase in hand, cerebral steps across an icy front lawn made for keen awareness of the danger surrounding every move. Painstakingly trying to keep balance. Eerily quiet calm. Not a creature was stirring. Keys in hand the front door opened an oasis truly embraced as home sweet home conjured new breath.

Candles lit and stove on for tea and warmth, accessing began. Not like I waited until hitting the front door but now have can match the reality with the list. The preparation is all in the planning and execution. I lamented. The next morning the rest of my crew from the traveling caravan connected as most powered phones in cars, malls or anyone fortunate enough to have a good generator lent a helping hand to those less fortunate. Well some did anyway.

The anger and ignorance of some gave a pregnant pause as it was now everyone's problem for those failing to be proactive. Extended gas lines, markets turning folks away as failed freezers meant compromised food sources, tying the hands of management and staff. Witnessing individuals, some professionals, who under any other headline would never seemingly find themselves in that position, argued their point of survival over the last sausage link on the planet. I lamented.

Forecasting was key. If you lived in Peru you knew that New England was about to take a hit, yet the element of surprise and entitlement stifled the pleasant air of my town. The same mentality exists with some who think they can run a successful business without forecasting. Without checking the customer climate, not counting the cost, energy and skill of running a business with organization causes failure. Playing into the blame game instead of looking at the man in the mirror. Failure to launch, communicate and move forward with agile spells epic failure.

So many businesses have closed over the last year because a huge portion miscalculated, they failed to keep up with their objectives. Not because the customers dried up. When you take up entrepreneurship you must know what you are getting into. Appreciating good art does not make you an artist any more than the appeal to start a business means you should. We always see one hit wonders, some pan out where the creator or inventor can make millions and walk away, for the majority it becomes ground hog day.

You go by way of the proverbial networking route. Meeting and greeting, passing out cards. Possibly connecting. You formulate lazy eye marketing. Random target focus.  Tooling the effervescent email blast to individuals you barely made eye contact with, hoping the words reach the heart and create a relationship in the mind. Come on folks! Back in the day you had to work harder than that to retain a pen pal.

Remember after the 2011 storm, like other weather events, people were practically holding hands in Kumbaya? Sure you do. When the ice cleared and the lights came back on the oh so familiar air of realism hit with a vengeance as warm embraces, paying for other's coffee at the local Starbucks and holding open the polite door began the descent into past tense. Disingenuous acts loom but don't last. Hard sell with a smile is done in case you missed the memo. You'd better giddy up for the bare bones, hit the ground running work that comes with ownership of your actions and reactions to all things business and beyond. We all know when we are treated with civility or with true intent of engagement.

​Showing up to the party takes more than meets the eye. But you know this so, so why the drink-wash-repeat method.  You know who you are. You make what you think are noteworthy appearances at networking meetings as if you were brought in special to sign autographs. You might seek out new ones but mostly rely on others to spread your good name. I have a not so secret for you: creating and spreading your good name is your primary responsibility, keeping a good name means working for it the rest of your life. 

Rid yourself of the temperamental invite. The bait and switch of if you come to my event I'll support yours. This does not work well as availability changes and no one is going to compromise substantial business to attend an event. Be a grown up and handle the idea of sharing events as viable means in offering extended growth instead of bartering for time.Make an effort to really connect, go to other events outside of your comfort zone. This is prime flea market, expo and outdoor show time season. Your business cards should not be bun warmers.

Which reality are you connected to if you believe the only way to advance lies in the hands of what you did yesterday. Your potential and current base can shrink and fade quicker than a bad bleach job. You have to plan for success instead of thinking you deserve it. Sure you deserve it if you worked for it but we all have the same hope of going beyond the line, making it.

Know yourself, know your business and become aware of what works-and this changes often. If you are working on local business do you know what that really is. Are you ready to supply and demand against those aligned in the same model. There is room for all but why do I want to do business with you on any level. Throwing hooks with zero follow through is a ridiculous waste of time.

The goal is to build your business. When it does happen do not resent those who cannot support the same events. You will know their success because you will see and hear about it so stop the hating.  Perpetual networking for the eats is a reputation killer and does not gain you any friends. If the first thing you grab for is a drink upon arriving at a networking event may spell a deeper concern needing your attention .

When you receive an invite for an event it is bad form to habitually hold out for the better opportunity. Over time you cancel yourself out of potentially untapped resources not seen by the naked eye. Do not get caught up in the befoolery. http://www.floralgreenspublishing.com/pillar-to-post/keeping-up-appearances.  There is no ROI for ignorant's sticker shock and rarely a refund.

It's not all about showing me the money but how you got there. I need to know the story. You should feel very uncomfortable with cookie cutter homogenized effort. Might work for a while not the long haul. Gear up building the right type of materials for your business. Research, research, research. Prepare properly for your atmosphere. Stop the crass competition and infighting which cracks infrastructure. And, if you are showing up to the party to gather information-I see you and I'm just pausing because your forecast is changing before your very eyes.

Preparedness is your business, the way people respond to it is theirs.

Alas, the long 2011 storm's aftermath reiterated hope impacting in kaleidoscope fashion. May it offer life and business lessons while casting a candid cautionary tale.
Until next time~

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Simple Blogging Tips For Every Day Users

5/3/2016

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For starters it allows an audience to know what you are about. Plain and simple, people do want to know about you before they hear about a product. The not so common sense of the matter lies in the delivery. Some feel it futile to communicate on a personal level because it is viewed as weakness or bleeding heart syndrome. The latter could not be farther from the truth.

Due Diligence-Get to the point of the matter with a quick synopsis of how you got your start. The relevancy of trial and error will inspire others who may have thought they were all alone in their quest. Be creative but honest. Build a story holding the attention yet captivating their entrepreneurial side.

You Don't Have To Be A Professional Writer-Writing does take some skill but more grammar and complete sentences make all the difference in maintaining and audience and helping them get the point. Bottom-lining to quickly or aggressively will create a sales pitch format that you must stay away from. Add a few anecdotes, sprinkle some cheer and lead up to your point.

Avoid Becoming Sidetracked-Once you have the topic lose the rant by researching what you want to write about. The usual timeframe of the LinkedIn Professional is about 3-5 minutes to read an article. The going rate if you have followers is about 7-10 minutes depending on theme and need.

Understand what your audience is looking for not just what you care about writing about. Many blogs have similar concepts, touch base with your connections and ASK them what their needs are. If you are involved in some of the groups, expound on some of the topics with your own expertise. When the responses come, and they will, you can give direct support with supplemental face time for continued meaningful dialogue.

Stay Relevant-Not just trending which does phase itself out but use real world logic and easy to understand terms so as to not come off overly confident. Nothing wrong with intelligence but there is a time and a place and varying degrees of administering wisdom. No one likes a know it all. Speak truth, keep it simple and do not linger on the same note endlessly. Stop pausing at the green light.

Pardon Me-Come up for air. I one counted 37 words in a sentence that if brevity were keenly observed the passage would have been brilliant. I had to read the words several times, figuring out where the emphasis was supposed to be and hoping I hadn't missed the point. The comments were harsh and let the writer know acidly that time lost on trying to focus did more harm than good. Did I mention the article is question was on selecting appropriate context for leadership engagement?  Read and reread before posting-please.

Attitude Is Everything-Mistakes are ok as we all err however if in our writing we become too passionate the delivery may be that of scolding or lecturing. Avoid this notion altogether if you want a steady stream of visitors. One of the goals should be to lead individuals to your business site and other intellectual landscape with the ultimate goal of a meeting. Leave the violins out and champions the drummer, keeping the rhythm balance of life and work balance without exposing your soul in each writing.

All You Have Is All There Is-You do not have to have a degree in every topic but do know what you are talking about. This requires research which I have mentioned but it deserves repeating. Copying and pasting is not blogging. Sending out articles from others is not your personal blog. What you have let your audience know is that you are capable of finding good and sometimes great content but where are you? Posting may give the idea of your agreement of some principles being shared but your words will hold merit once you realize you have a voice.

Let me know if these tips work for you as I plan to revisit the subject again in the future. For now though, even if you are fully employed, if you are planning on writing a blog on LinkedIn or on another platform-let your light shine.

​Until Next Time~

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