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Thought-Leadership Why We Need It

10/28/2014

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In life and business, leadership plays a major role. It sets a pattern for our day-to-day activities and measures our success or caustic failure.

The profile of a leader need not be prolific every time but the skill it yields must prove viable, engaging and real. A leader is a fundamentalist of change and is not afraid to stand alone if need be. Understanding how to orchestrate and maintain objectives and stay on task.

Before you can become a leader you must understand and build a foundation of leadership standards. Is your goal C-Level management? Will you inspire others to want to think for themselves and follow your direction? In order to become a thought-leader you must learn what it means to be one.

Leading vs. Managing-Learn the difference. Many who can manage daily tasks assume they are ready to lead. Good management reveals a person’s ability to stay on topic, reliable in a pinch. In juxtaposition, a leader by definition has major managerial skills but the key element here: you have to have the ability to lead people.

The tone of this role is not simply to command. The savvy to guide, teach, instruct and correct when needed. Cohesively doing so recommends a balance of skills.

Another element left to fend for itself: Inspiration. Leaders must aspire to inspire. So what you say carries concise structure without micromanagement.  There is a nominal difference between being in control and under control. Wanton obedience means listen and obey. Strong leadership means what you have taught sees fruition.

Build Trust-Those around you have great expectations. Everyone listening to you may not become your best friend but they want, no need, someone they trust. When working with others honestly, the support sharpens. People gain confidence in you, respecting your opinion. Realistic guidelines will help reduce any trepidation associated with your role as leader.

Take advantage of teaching tools your company offers. Seek external support for your business model. Share and solicit ideas thereby allowing for flexibility on execution of tasks. This critical step opens the door to improved dialogue, creating a positive, shared environment.

While many industries have forsaken honesty as rudimentary, don’t believe the hype. Peer engagement involves your accountability in truthfully assessing and maintaining the needs and safety of those working with you. Put your money where your mouth is by keeping it real.

Learn To Listen-Since Texting’s emergence, we tend to express ourselves in abbreviated terms. Within seconds we have responses before complete, proper conveyance is diagnosed. Have an actual person-to-person meeting and just listen. Our conjecture should be well thought out. Not based on reactive assumptions.

Much is miscommunicated by these methods, albeit convenient. Be aware that certain subject matter requires face time. Being a good listener means you choose your statements wisely as they are based facts as presented. This insures and protects time lost on recovery. Key point: You can either be a good hearer or a good listener. One hears voices the other hears words.

Understand Your Role-The role of a thought-leader is to evoke innovations. If you are seeking such a role be ready to accept the responsibility that accompanies it. The basics of the daily or weekly plan are a given. Thought-leaders though, need to be more than perfunctory. They should have the energy and forthrightness to be the creator.

Write out a mantra you believe in and live by on a daily basis because it will make it easier to remember and follow through on. Post it so others see it as this will give basis for assurance that you mean what you say. Reinforce it with actions that speak for themselves. Hypocritical movement or speech jeopardizes good efforts.

Have A Vision-Famous Fashion designer Ralph Lauren was quoted as saying, “A leader has the vision and conviction that a dream can be achieved. He inspires the power and energy to get it done.” While this point has been touched on, the relevance of repetition is clearly valuable. We have it in our power to achieve greatness.

There is no need to ride the coattails of others because we stand on perfectly solid ground all on our own. Success does not come from how many projects see the light but from the path chosen to birth the idea in the first place. Own the challenges, highs and lows. Boundaries for your greatness can only be held back because you gave up or gave in. Worrying and stewing over what others’ perceptions of you are will not help thought-life capabilities.

We all make millions of decisions. Each of us earns kudos for our role in keeping the ebb and flow of our ever changing society. So call it what you want but at the end of the day you are a leader.


Until next time~

 

 

 

 

 


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Who Am I?

10/22/2014

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I haven't seen my father in nearly 15 years or more. My sister and I lost our mother to cancer on a brisk November 4th day in the 80's. I chose not to let this hinder me long term. Instead I grew into a self-aware, full grown, active adult with opportunities to thrive.

As a young girl spending countless days walking on Atlantic City's Steel Pier and surrounding sandy beaches, I pondered, grieved, wondered, sobbed and hoped for something better. Do I wallow in regret, sadness and loss or make brave forward movements?

A real and positive path is what I chose. Life has enough potential hindrances without setting yourself up by holding tight to mental drama from the past-but on to that in a moment.

Because of my mother's love of family ties, we stayed connected through annual visits to Connecticut, where she was born and raised. My sister and I received a lot of 'back in the day' stories of her and her favorite cousin Emma's antics.

We would always find ourselves convening in my Aunt Roberta's kitchen, which of course is where most family gatherings started and always finished. Over creamy casserole dishes of macaroni and cheese, pots of greens, honey sweet yams and other ethnic favorites, a resurgence of 'remember when's' continued into the wee hours. My sister and I, (who I still call 'Buffy' to this day) took it all in.

Overtime we began to know some of their history and understood a little more of where we came from, but wanted, frankly, needed more. For reasons I will write about in detail with my next book, I still craved to know who I was and many questions would go unanswered-for decades. What I do know is who I am, the hard work, tenacity, pain and triumphs.

I am a hard working CEO, Author, Writer, Business Owner, Speaker, Singer, Wedding Cake Baker,  with an enriched, satisfying personal life that includes my love for Deaf culture. Wholly capable of accomplishing anything I set out to do. Decision Maker, Integrity Keeper, and Loyal Family Member and Friend, I surround myself with honest, straight-forward allies who keep me grounded and real. I am a woman of courage and hope, who knows who she is and what she wants. A perpetual student of life, choosing accurate knowledge over information overload.

Something I learned a long time ago: not to allow the negative past to consume you. Learn from it, create on essential life lessons and move on with the knowledge that you matured, flourished- despite it.

So there is never a question of who I am but more...

...where I let the journey take me and where the exploration leads is more the answer.


Until next time~



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Overcoming The Fear Of Failure

10/17/2014

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In order to work on conquering our fears, we need to know their source. Many spend an entire lifetime trying to survive childhood insecurities. For others, it may be developed self-esteem issues due to a situation, betrayal, one's own self-imposed scrutiny. There are scores of reasons but the truth at the heart of it-you do have the power to heal.

 1. Do not allow anyone to tell you that you can just shrug it off, these are your feelings and yours alone. You have taken the brave step of realizing instead of ignoring and displacing this emotion.

 2. Try not to feel overwhelmed-easier said than done but now you can ponder and seek help to fix whatever is causing the fears.

 3. Find someone to talk to that will display an unbiased, listening ear.

 4. Seek closure but do not set the bar high on instant results-to error is human, but to rush a solution may cause additional injury. Whatever caused your pain initially did not occur overnight. The healing progression may take even longer based on age of concern(s), personality, present encounters, and compounded sufferings: illness, family problems, career stress, etc. So do not expect that resolution will happen instantly, otherwise you may set yourself up for failure.

 I suffered a long time due to insecurities about my weight. After losing 126 pounds I realized that I still had to work on how I felt about me the person. It was never about the weight, ridicule or my appearance before, during or after. It was about me. How I got to that point. What my qualities, focuses, aspirations were. 

I had to find a way to recognize my assets. I wrote them down, said out loud. Talked to others, i.e. found a confidant or two and I shared my passion for life with others. In other words, I validated my being present and worthy. Not a leaf in the wind but someone with a firm foundation, able to look another human in the eye and say I am worth it. This is why you should hire me, believe and value me.

Today, I have a strong, positive, productive outlook and a growing business. For anyone out there still trying to resolve their fears, please know there is hope, help and healing.

Until next time~


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Keep Kids Safe While Surfing The Net

10/8/2014

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Knowing your children are safe and sound offers peace of mind. The last thing we want to think about is what they are absorbing as the ease of one click, gives access to zillions of sites in seconds. Virtually all you have to do is tap on a letter or two and anything can pop up at a glance. Some savory-some not so much.

What you may consider normal parenting methods could be misconstrued as intrusive, causing hurt feelings of distrust, even if you have suspected correctly that certain material you view as harmful is being viewed. Here are some helpful hints to keep the communication lines open, build trust and hopefully reduce stress levels.

Don't Wait To Communicate

While you can try adding changes after damage is done, it is better to curb issues before they emerge. Why wait until our young are in their late teens to rectify concerns, when hardened and determined habits are formed. Have viewing parties-include snacks like you would on a movie night, finding easy recipes as everyone surfs together. Allow suggestions and listen to requests, posing questions without blame or scolding if choices don't match what you had in mind. Have the chat before the web educates your child for you.

Talk About It Often

As our youth make mature discoveries, incorporate positive dialogue during family meetings, preferably away from the dinner table so it creates honest feedback and less of a tribunal feel.  Avoid accusing or passing judgment. You want to know what is on their mind. Suggest age appropriate activities that can showcase some of the items of interest found while online. Let the kids construct computer projects you all can participate in and share through email, family community rooms, etc.

Discuss Real Dangers

The family computer can be centrally located but you need to have the conversation. As technology changes more venues for voyeurism crop up with the snap of a finger. Keep it real and current, asking every household member to research and share updated online dangers. Talk about changing passwords and sharing these passwords except on business, critical data not needing to be shared anyway. Check more ideas out here: http://www.parentfurther.com/technology-media/online-safety/computers

Strong Resolves Strengthens Bonds

You may be tempted but do not give in to the pouty mouth, attitude or other mood changes. Once everyone understands what is to be expected, let it be understood by your responsible behavior that you are the parent and setting boundaries is a part of the process. Including your kids in the dialogue is respectful, a privilege they need to emulate. 

Being aware of the joys and dangers can enable your child to surf safely without drowning.

Until next week~
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October Featured Woman Of The Month: Joan Lunden

10/1/2014

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As the longest running early morning show host, you get more than meets the eye. Born Joan Elise Blunden in Fair Oaks, California, she would become a formidable comrade on many fronts. On an unassuming Tuesday June 2th her and our world would change. Not the mill of the run change but a life altering, potentially lethal one, life altering to say the least. 


A perfectly clad stately woman boldly announced to the world that she has cancer. Muted undertones filled every house, office, device and studio as Joan Lunden made more of a statement than a sorrowful plea for pity. She had determined long before stepping in from of that camera that she was determined. Determined to live, to love, and to be with her family. Be there for herself and try to heal the hearts and souls of so many that she was, is able to touch during a daily routine. Joan has reported from 26 countries, covered 4 presidents and become a spokesperson to many a worthy organization, one in particular being, A Place For Mom, a national senior care referral service.


No doubt her most fulfilling role next to being a mother to a Brady Bunch lot of 7 children, 3 from former marriages, 4 with her loving husband Jeff Konisberg, she has a cheering section some could only wish for on a good day. Not to mention the cherry on top: a new granddaughter, her first, born just this September, granting her another title-Grandma!

In an interview earlier today with Billy Bush and Kit Hoover of Access Hollywood, Joan revealed that in the first minutes of learning of her new condition she ran through the panic-stricken checklist of things she needed to do in order to get her affairs in order. As quickly as she started the catalogue, she paused. Stopping the instinctive auto-response of "what am I going to do?" Why? Because she was going to do just what she had been doing-living....living.


She researched options, accepted experimental treatments and despite the concealment of major pain and energy loss, she started healing, if only at a mental pace. With unbelievable strength she moved forward in motivating and educating. On her site, www.joanlunden.com she created vlogs of her journey, cancer awareness and groups that can help. Author of eight books, earning a Liberal Arts degree at Sacramento State College, conquered bungee jumping and paragliding,
Joan has done it all.

At 64, her longest mile will history her to a place of less regret, hitting the ground running. Go Joan Go!

...And stay, because we can count on you to be present, real and there for anyone needing to go beyond the triumph~

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